In this modern era we live with desire to live a perfect life and to live that wishful life we start forgetting every other things. The things which are most important part of our life.

We always hide our flaws to pretend that there is no imperfections, our mistakes which gives us lessons, our lies which gives strength to understand the importance of truth. Why we do so ? Answer is very simple just to show that “I am perfectly fine” .

Have you ever thought to say that I have a precious scar which reminds me the part of my life and I love to wear it, instead of saying that there is no scar and I am perfectly fine.

Or to admit that I did mistake and wow what a wonderful incident it was which taught me a lesson.

Or confess that yesterday I lied to you but today I want to apologize because I know now the importance of yours.

Untill we didn’t go wrong we don’t know what is right.

If we never taste the lie or mistake how we are going to judge what is taste of truth and correct things.

When the mistakes, lies & scars taught us a lot why we need to ignore and hide it. We should feel blessed that we got chance to improve it and thanks to that mistake.

We should wear our flaws and every incident with proud to show that this is me instead of pretending wrong and saying the false that I am perfect.

We should “embrace” what life gives us because that only makes us perfect not lies.

We have learned from Buddha teachings that “Don’t let others spoil your inner peace”. Is it really easy to ignore or let go what people thinks about you.

Some times we act like we don’t care, then another time our mind starts thinking about each and every word said by others for us.

Life brings us through many phases, lots of ups and downs. We learn from different people by listening them whether that people are our parents, relatives, neighbors or society. We start believing in them the only difference we are aware that what to adopt and what to avoid .

Reality is that the day we realise ourselves. Where we stand ? what we want? what we are doing? why we are doing? where we want to reach?

When we got our vision clear we start avoid stupid & silly things .

Eventually, one should realise that what people thinks and says does not matter, but still we listen them because listening makes us more wise.

People are in throes of virtual epidemic. The numbers are quite staggering.

Have People lost the way of living?
In this era, many of us are living dulled and robotic life. The life which is completely devoid from the value and passion. We live in competitive culture where success is marked as biggest achievement of happy life.
And in that search we sometimes loose what we have with us, which is priceless.
We start cutting our self with family,relatives, and friends just to come in the list of achievers .In that very moment we start making our self unhappy & alone which drags us to the dark room.

“Achieving your goals is the part of your life not your life.”

Everything comes at correct time when you have believe and faith with your hard work.
For that no body should rush to get that. Work hard and have faith it will revert you soon .

Chin up & feet at the ground.

Generation gap is difference in attitude and behaviour between people of different generations.

For example, old generation would accuse the new of being disobedient and lacking in values. While the new generation would accuse the old for being too rigid and outdated.

A son was bound to chose the profession of his father and live the same life which his father has lived. The external environment too did not change much. Society was the same wether it was the 14th century or the 15th century. Same economy, same lifestyle.

Father, being the experienced person would understand the needs and dilemmas of his son, as he has faced the same in his own life. There was no generation gap then.

It all started post industrial revolution. When the society started changing. But the significance was realized only in the 20th century, when mass media led to massive changes in the social environment. Dress, food, music and dance all would change every 20 years. Even ideologies would change.

Father and son were separated by different lifestyles. Son would face different choices and dilemmas, his father would have no answers to. Son would look elsewhere for answers, but his father would want him to listen. Result is a conflict.

That’s generation gap.

Today the pace of change has only increased. So the generation gap is expected to be increasing too. This pose a challenge to the new parents. They are expected to be adaptable, understanding and tolerant to avoid inter generational conflicts.

Fix my wings back.
When a parent don’t give a single chance to a girl to do something Which she can do, it’s like u have cut the wings which were waiting

with the aspiration and enthusiasm to fly higher.
She is supposed to get the equal chance as her brother or like another successful girls in the world.
But she is supposed to follow her parents to be a good daughter which is more important for a girl than anything else.
She cannot deny what her father is saying to do…
It’s a kind of feeling like somebody has filter your liberty that these are the things you are allowed to do and these are others which u don’t dare to think even to do..
It’s very painful when you can’t do what you want.
It’s very painful when you climb the stairs but the entrance gate is closed for you…
It’s very painful when you can’t see the trust in those eyes where it is supposed to be…