One should always be managed in life.
being messed up is like being cursed.
When you are not stand and not independent, you are nothing. This life asks for true dedication towards your living style. Your aura and personility should be of strong vibration. You should be free of your decisions , and actions. Why to be dependent on somebody for your own life.
Everyone gets lesson in one’s life with any incident or something. So one should not waste that lesson. Consider is an enlightment. Even each insult is also a lesson.
Keep yourself unpuzzeled with everything like relationship, money, work, food etc.
Chin up! & Feet on the ground!